Helping Loved Ones in Emotionally Abusive Relationships

One of the most difficult challenges in having loved ones in abusive relationships is knowing when to let go. Continuing attempts to help that are unheard and unwelcome can damage relationships and cause shame, anguish, and despair for everyone involved. Putting pressure on victims to leave their abusers can also create power struggles and strengthen their resolve to stay. A more effective approach is unconditional love and support within healthy boundaries that may eventually lead victims to gain more confidence and make better decisions.